Age:20

Height: 5ft 6

Bust:  32 F  Yes, F, lol, on occasion G- for the longest time though I thought I was a 34DD though. I will attest that a proper fitting bra can change your life

Waist: oh god these are mean, lol…  29

Hips : 40

Weight:  157

Hair color : Brown

Eye color : Brown

Birthday : May 1989

Hometown : Texas (though I am in school on the east coast)

Relationship Status: Single but Its Complicated

Well this is indeed a first for me.  I have always reserved interviews for spanking models.  But a while  back someone contacted me concerning a friend of hers who was indeed into spankings and seriously considering becoming a spanking model.  Well Dear Reader I checked out her blog (Confessions of a Spanked Princess) and I was totally blown away.  It took every ounce of self control to keep from trying to convince her to go over your humble narrator’s knee.  Well our next guest on The Spanking Spotlight may or may not become a spanking model,  But she should!  Perhaps when she is a well known spanking star she will remember Your Humble Narrator and send him a post card of her wonderful red bottom.  Dear Readers please welcome Kelly. 

Hi Kelley,  Thank you for sitting down with us at the Spanking Spot.  Now this is new to me since I have never interviewed a fellow blogger.  Certainly not one as cute.  Tell us how you decided to start The Spanked Princess

Aw thank you! I’m so flattered to be your first! Well I started The Confession of a Spanked Princess last year at this time after a spanking blog binge. I got really addicted to the blog His to Spank His To Love and was procrastinating on a research project I had to get done, and read the entire thing, start to finish. I was so moved and hooked (I’ve followed other blogs before, but mostly celebrities in the scene or wonderful compilation blogs such as this one) and I though, I know html coding, and I have LOTS to say… this could be SOOO much fun.

I wanted just a place to share my story. Both for my own benefit, and possibly so that I could touch some young girl that might feel alone in what’s she’s feeling, the way that other blogs have touched me. Oh, and I thought that I certainly wouldn’t mind the attention.

In our Pre-interview you had told me you got your first spanking at 18.  Can you tell us a little about that?,  how it felt etc.

Sure. I got my first spanking the April before last from a wonderful man who ended up being my first “Daddy.” I met him through a personal ad on Shadow Lane (I just happened to be on there- I had never heard of SIN or places like that). The experience was…life changing. It was very different than what I expected. I went WAY into sub space, whereas I had expected to cry and feel punished and purged. I felt that…but mostly I felt bliss. Edward is a slow spanker. He paces them out, and takes his time. He’s not a wham bam thank you ma’am type.

It was my first time and I didn’t realize that I’d have such a high pain tolerance, so he started over my dress (a hot pink, loose jersey day dress and leopard shoes- its much cuter than it sounds, and not Nearly as trashy as it sounds!), and then moved to my panties (light blue bikini bottoms with white piping, styled after boys’ briefs) and then finally to my bare bottom…I never cried out. I never did anything (this has changed DRASTICALLY- lol, I’m a big time squirmer and whiner now). I just moaned a little and felt everything.

My favorite part of that day though was the first little spanking I got before we went out. I didn’t know he was going to do it and then he led me over to the bed and I must have looked so confused! (Ok, I was being a bit of a brat, I should have seen it coming). He pulled me over his lap, and I think I lost all ability to think.

He peppered my dress covered bottom with firm swats and asked questions, to which I couldn’t seem to stop answering with “Yeah” and “Ok.” My inability to remember to say “Yes Sir” (Something I’d never said before in my life) resulted in my dress being flipped up and some firmer swats being applied to my panty covered bottom. I was Soaked, and my stomach was doing summersaults. He let me up, saying it was just a taste of what was to come and to remind me to behave while we were out getting to know each other better.

I was most definitely lucky. I had a wonderful experience (though I actually ended up black and blue for about a week b/c I was so far in sub space I stopped feeling how much it hurt) and not only did I not get hurt (which would have been quite possible, considering I wasn’t exactly Super safe) but I also met my first love J. 

I noticed reading your blog you have started to share some of your recent spankings on Spanking Tube.  Any thoughts about perhaps going pro and getting a spanking at one of our wonderful spanking studios?

Oh now isn’t that the million dollar question! The short answer is Yes. I have thought about it and would love to. The long answer is yes I have and would love to but I’m so freaking scared and conflicted!

I can’t honestly think of anything that I would love to do more than do some real spanking modeling. I mean, getting spanked is probably my favorite thing to do period and then someone pays you to do it! That seems like a no brainer.  Plus I’d get to meet great people and try new spankers and situations…sigh. It’d be amazing.

But I go to a very prestigious university and want to have the entire world of opportunities that will afford me. And doing spanking videos- even if I do it in a classy, non porny way… I mean its still something that could ruin not only my future but also my family if it were to get out… Plus I’m not exactly the same size as most models (even spanking models) and I’m not sure my already fragile body image could take the level of criticism that is leveled at all people in the spotlight….though the attention itself would be heavenly.

One could say that my blog is “out” and it’s just as big a risk…but at least with my little corner of blogdom I can hold on to the naïve belief that I can control the dissemination of the material there….

Mainly what it comes down to is one of my biggest fears in life is having regrets or doing something “wrong” (I’m constantly worried that I’m doing college “wrong”). But I can’t figure out if the worse thing would be to risk regretting doing it and the possibly ramifications of getting caught or to regret not doing something I wanted to do so badly and had wanted to do since I was little and that  I probably won’t be able to do for many more years (in this scene, I felt old when I turned 20).

Sigh, basically if a studio that I love and respect were to ask… I can’t imagine seeing myself say no. But for the moment, I’m not going to actively seek out any modeling.

So you told me you collect souvenir spoons.  Any ones worth getting spanked with?

Ha-ha, sadly no. Souvenir spoons are very small (like teaspoons) and metal, so no spanking.

As a Art History Major can you tell us a little about your hopes and dreams.  (other than some gorgeous guy spanking you).  Oh what is your favorite painting.  Preferable one with spanking in it!

I hope to get my PhD in art history and to teach either as a professor or as an AP teacher at some prep school somewhere (they have to Offer art history for me to teach there!).

I did work at a museum this summer though, and thoroughly enjoyed it (in the new media and technology department no less) and so that is always a possibility.

My favorite painting?! That’s impossible! Sigh. My go-to answer is Titian’s Venus of Urbino, but I’m not sure if that’s true anymore.

It’d be much easier to pick periods. I love Italian Baroque, French Neoclassical and Romanticism as well as Academic paintings. I also really enjoy the Surrealism of Rene Magritte, the Orphic Cubism of Robert Delauney and Abstract Expressionism.

My general feelings on art is don’t fuck with the beauty of the human form! I love abstract and modern work (alla Kandinsky), but I don’t enjoy the destruction and violation of the female figure. There is just something so honest and passionate about a great work of art…

Ok back To your spankings. What was the hardest one you have received and why?

This is a very controversial subject for me. Not choosing- that’s easy. But rather deciding whether or not what I received was a spanking or was abuse…I was firmly in the spanking category until my friends found out…they did NOT agree. So I think I’ll leave it at that.

What is your favorite implement and why?

Does a man’s open palm count as an implement? No? lol, I actually wrote like a dissertation on my blog about why the hand was the best implement. But my favorite actual implement is the hairbrush. Super standard and domestic. I love the sting J I love that I have to be over his knee, or at the very least he has to be touching me to deliver it. It’s a “naughty little girl” implement, which is most definitely my thing.

I think my favorite punishment implement, and the only non otk implement that I really love is the Domestic Discipline Strap from London Tanners. Not only is it just stunning to look at, and the perfect “Daddy” implement to have hanging in the closet (much better than a belt-which I don’t like) but it just feels…. Right. When its swung with proper force it hurts like the dickens! But in the right way. Its thick but wide, and it hits evenly, so it doesn’t leave those bite marks like a belt does. Plus it makes the bottom the most beautiful shade of red J No bruises. Just the good pain. But trust me, this isn’t something I would court. Its punishment plain and simple. And there is also something very domestic and caring about it still. Being placed over pillows on our bed, having him touch my lower back as he straps my bare bottom. It doesn’t feel disconnected at all.

I love everything from that place- Ian does such an amazing job.

What is your least favorite implement and why?

Well my least favorite implement is the cane, but its also one that I don’t see myself ever playing with again, just due to a bad experience. The other implement that I really dislike, and would only play with limitedly is fraternity type paddles. There is just such a disconnect when someone is dishing out a paddling- that feeling of love and intimacy that I think is so crucial to a good spanking just gets lost.

Also, they simply bruise, without letting the bottom get that nice rosy red color, and that in my opinion, is just a shame.

What is your favorite spanking position and least if you have one?

OTK ALL THE WAY!!!! I wish I could make that into a bumper sticker. There is nothing that beats the intimacy and vulnerability of being over someone’s lap. J Hmm… Least favorite is harder. Well one that love to hate is diaper position- it just stings SOO much, and is acutely embarrassing *blush* (but I would be lying if I said that I didn’t sometimes crave it). I guess the only position that I honestly dislike is bent over grabbing your ankles. It’s just so uncomfortable that you can’t actually focus on why you’re getting spanked. Plus, if someone is using wood, then that position becomes simply dangerous.

I think I can guess this answer, but do you prefer M/F or F/F spankings and why?

M/f for sure, though I’m starting to get into F/f (something that previously didn’t interest me in any way other than sexually. Even though I am bisexual, I am still a pretty big proponent of standard gender roles as it relates to my own life. I like manly men and girly girls.) So I would love to top a girl (though that is not my natural roll) but it’s much harder for me to consider subbing to a female. I love big strong men. Ones that can pick me up and toss me over their shoulder, and where the safest place in the whole world is over their knee, and in their strong arms afterwards. Men that will protect you from the world…Plus they’re just sexy and strong (though the female form is FAR more beautiful and more fun to look at )

So like myself you are kinda a closet spanko and kinda not.  What do your friends and family that know think of our little hobby?

Until a year and a half ago, not even my best friend (who’s not exactly vanilla) knew about my interests. I’ve been trying to be more honest as of late, but still not many know. Said best friend, after I told her, has helped me create my blog (and now reads my blog) and has gotten me into trouble with my Daddy’s! *Pout!* Lol. My former roommate (who lives in France) reads my blog to keep up with my life. But other than them, only 2 other non spankos know and they only found out recently. Mostly they react very well. They usually say, “yeah that makes sense for you.” Or “I KNEW YOU DIDN’T MEET HIM IN THE LIBRARY!” but they’ve all been really understanding, though they get worried about my safety, and Francesca is honestly the only one I can really talk to about it.

None of my family knows, but my parents aren’t idiots, and after getting caught with “outside of the norm” porn 4 times or more from the age of 10 til now, they know something is up. (I’m guessing that the fact that Edward was 44 and my last boyfriend was 36 doesn’t help them sleep at night either). I’m pretty sure they think I’m into S&M and they know I’m bi, but I’m praying a God they don’t guess DD. Is that strange? That I’d rather people think I’m into whips and cuffs than a loving spanking from my husband?

 Ok,  Let’s say you were stuck on a desert island with one person of your choice to dish out your spankings.  Who would it be.?

Uh oh. Is it bad that my first thought was my ex? Lol. Hmm…. This is a tough one. OH! I know!!! Gibbs. Leroy Jethro Gibbs. Aka the main character from the TV show NCIS played by Mark Harmon. It is not declared that he is a spanko, but I know it in my heart J

If I were to pick a spanking celeb I’d pick Keith Jones. The only man with a mustache I have ever been attracted to. He was probably the first spanker who’s name I ever knew, and was one of the first spankers I ever saw in a video. I’m a huge fan, and I just love the way he spanks, and scolds… And mostly the way he holds a girl over his lap as he’s talking- watch something of his, you’ll see what I’m talking about.

Also on your blog you mentioned you are quite interested in giving another female spanking.  Who would you really like to spank?

Ohhhh… Well there is this girl in my acapella group on campus named Betsy (she’s a freshman, redhead, SOOOO adorable and super talented) that I have a HUGE crush on. Its kinda an issue b/c she’s in my group and incest in that is just not allowed, but also because she’s straight, lol. She happens to have the most spankable round bottom on her too and a mischievous streak a mile wide…. Mmmmmmmmmmm

Celeb wise, I’d  love to get to switch with (or do anything with) Samantha Woodley, and Amber Dawn. Samantha was kinda like my idol when I was younger (I think I was 12 when she did her first movie with Shadow Lane) and I think that her petulant nature is very similar to mine. And Amber… well I must just have a thing for redheads. And that bottom *licks lips*

You are a big fan of Spanking Fiction I hear.  What is your favorite story? 
I mostly love Spanking FanFiction (Lord of the Rings, NCIS, Buffy, Twilight, Supernatural, etc) but I also was a long time member of Discipline and Desire, and they have some amazing authors. The story that first comes to mind was a cowboy story (I love me a good ole’ Cowboy! I am from Texas after all) but I can’t for the life of me remember the name. L I wish I did. I want to praise the author like they deserve.

Well Kelley it was indeed nice sitting down with you.  Do you have anything you want to say to your blog fans out there?

Well thank you. J Its been so much fun! And to my blog fans I would just like to say thank you for sticking with me through all the ups and downs and I hope you continue to read and enjoy!

Dear Readers please give a warm hand to Kelley,  A beautiful and incredibly intelligent girl that would be over my knee in about a second if your Humble Narrator ever had the chance.  It was indeed a pleasure interviewing her.  Both gracious and naughty!  Once again you can find her here at Confessions of a Spanked Princess

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Title: Rawhide

Starring: Dallas, Audrey Knight

Produced By:  Dallas

Written and Directed By: Sabrina Starr

Distributed by: Dallas Spanks Hard

Runtime:  55:04

Price:  $65 (DVD), $45 (Download)

Alas Dear Readers!  Dallas is indeed about to get his revenge from the heinous acts of the very naughty Audrey Knight.  Now for those who missed it there is quite an interesting back story here.  The last time Audrey visited our friend Dallas she indeed got a intense spanking in Dallas’s last movie Rawhide.  Now obviously she felt that Dallas spanked her a little too hard since she had quite the trouble sitting comfortably on her 3 hour flight home.  But as we all know Hell has no wrath like a woman scorned.  And to exact her revenge she stole Dallas’s beloved spanking timer.  Dallas quite upset about this indeed had a psychotic break and spent a number of weeks wandering around LA muttering to himself and crying uncontrollably whenever he saw a wrist watch.  Taking pity on him many of his friends indeed begged Audrey to return his beloved time piece.  Well she did, Unfortunately she smashed it into little pieces and after a somber burial, Dallas went out to exact his revenge.  And today he shall indeed have it.

Now before I go into the movie I must congratulate Dallas on doing something never before seen in the spanking world.  He created a long back story hosting small trailers throughout the internet before our dastardly Audrey even got spanked for it.  Including the funeral of his beloved spanking timer.  Quite frankly I though it as an excellent idea to promote a upcoming DVD.  Plus it does indeed build the anticipation that this will be a spanking of epic proportions.  So let us see if it lives up to the hype Dear Readers.

We open out little spanking tale with pictures of the travels of Dallas’s now deceased timer that our Dear Audrey took to torture our friend Dallas into temporary insanity.  Hearing that Audrey was back in town Dallas finally got himself together to become DOG The Spanko Hunter.  He jumps in his van and starts to track down his tormentor. 

He finally tracks her down in front of her friends house from a tipster sympathetic to the plight of abused time pieces and while she does indeed try to get out of it when he confronts her. Audrey seems resigned to her fate and comes along quietly.  As his eyes well up Dallas lectures her on the importance of his beloved timer Audrey seems quite unapologetic to the violence she imposed on the little guy.  Thus when they reach Dallas’s house her panties are immediately pulled down and she is made to parade into the house with that wonderful ass of hers peaking out of her pulled up dress.

Now one of these days Dear Reader, I will indeed have to interview a few of Dallas’s neighbors, who’s existence next to him must indeed be amusing to say the least.  Hot bare bottom girls with tears in their eyes parading in and out,  the loud crack of a good spanking.  Various spanking instruments strewn around the yard.  but I digress

After some corner time where we get some more breathtaking views of Audrey’s well tanned bare bottom (I love the tan lines) and another one of Dallas’s stern lectures the spanking begins in earnest around 12 minutes into the movie where Audrey is put over his knee and faces a bare ass hand spanking!

As many of his models do Audrey jumps at the first firm contact with her soon to be sore behind.  Dallas dispensing with the warm up goes right to it spanking her right from the beginning with the enthusiasm he usually reserves for his finale’s.  Even 3 minutes in one wonders how poor Audrey will take this most brutal of spankings.

Her legs kick her face grimaced in pain after each blow.  They come so quickly she doesn’t even have time to recover from the last one.  Now unfortunately for Audrey, without his timer she really has no idea how long this spanking will last.  But I am sure she can guess as well as us that it is going to last a good long excruciating time.

Focusing his blows on her bottom and her upper thigh’s Her bottom begins to turn two shades of red.  Audrey not her usual stoic self cry’s out from the punishment.  Her pink panties straining to the tearing point from her legs kicking in opposite directions.  The hand spanking lasts for a good 5 punishing minutes with Dallas going all out like I have never seen him.  Leaving both of them breathless.

But surely Audrey Knight needs more than a hand spanking for her deeds! And Dallas does not disappoint pulling out Yours Truly favorite namesake.  (is that thing metal?).  Holding her down tightly over his knee he whacks her with the hairbrush with the force reserved only for a girl who has indeed destroyed his friend.  Her bottom reacting violently with each application of the spanking implement.  Writhing over his knee, it is evident that this is indeed no act.   And the movie is not even half over!  With a few well placed blows Dallas gets Audrey to confess to every thing she stole since she was 15.

Not getting the reaction he was looking for with the hairbrush (try wooden next time). He moves to the wooden paddle.  A little longer than one would expect for OTK style spanking use. It is quite effective eliciting the desired response, namely Audrey shouting quite loudly each time it comes in contact with her already well spanked bottom.

Now Dear Reader,  I know I have said this alot about Dallas’s movies.  But Audrey gets spanked harder with this paddle then I think I have ever seen anyone get spanked before.  At least OTK.  Usually with a wooden paddle of this size a female can take 10 maybe 20 swats and usually not at full strength.  With Audrey I indeed lost count and they were ALL as hard as Dallas could spank her.  Even with my little laptop speakers I can hear the whoosh of the paddle as it passes across the microphone ACROSS THE ROOM!  This spanking appears too much for our little Audrey producing tears upon impact.

Ah but I spoke too soon Dear Reader,  Dallas pulls out his handy wooden bath brush!  While not for taming unruly hair it is indeed a brush so Your Humble Narrator likes it!  Now the thing to remember about these brushes vs the paddle is that they are weighted and they have alot less surface area ensuring that the girl you are indeed spanking is indeed being taught a lesson. 

Once again spanking her with incredible force,  one finds himself amazed that she has indeed not run screaming from his abode but her bottom is quite unmarked.  One would expect from a spanking like Audrey is receiving here that bruises would be showing at this point,  but that lovely bottom of hers is simply quite red.  Now I am indeed not sure if it is from Audrey suddenly developing a iron butt or the new concoction Dallas’s mate Sabrina made that was applied before the spanking started.  But if it turns out to be from the oil,  damn Dallas sell the stuff.  You’ll have every Spanking model buying cases of it!  The only drawback of it of course it makes the spanking hurt that much more.

After the brutal bath brush spanking leaving Audrey limp and whimpering over Dallas’s knee it is indeed time to explore some other positions and implements.  The first one is the big wooden paddle with Dallas’s logo emblazoned on it.  The first smack literally lifted the small girl off her feet.  Sometimes Dear Reader, physics gets in the way of even a awesome spanking!

Following her very painful encounter with the paddle she is finally placed over his couch to face first the strap and then a cane of some sort.  Both of which he wields with zeal.  Even the magical formula that Sabrina created couldn’t withstand such a spanking with her bottom now showing bruising quite visibly.

Actually the cane like thing is quite interesting,  its more flexible than the typical rattan,  looking almost like he is spanking her with a thin stiff rubber hose.  Whatever it was, it was quite effective Dear Readers.  The spanking ends with Audrey quite visibly crying and her well spanked bottom shining enough to light up LA for at least an hour. 

So did I enjoy it.  Dallas has indeed outdone himself with this one.  In fact I would urge him not to try to outdo himself anymore.  This spanking is about as hard as anyone can be expected to take.  And while knowing him,  and his dedication to safety for his models any harder or longer spankings would indeed make me worry.  Meanwhile Audrey is as always incredibly beautiful, The spanking is of course probably the hardest of 2009 and to top it all off she deserved it!

Excellent movie.  If your interested you of course can find it at Dallas Spanks Hard

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Age: 23
Height: 5′9
Bust:  36
Waist:  29
Hips : 42
Weight: depends on what I had for dinner
Hair color : reddish "bronde"
Eye color : brown
Birthday : 17th of October, 1985

Hometown : Ireland
Relationship Status: Attached

There are times Dear Reader when you talk to someone and say to yourself this person is going to go far.  Sitting down with Caroline Grey was indeed one of these rare occasions.  Smart, witty, and absolutely drop dead gorgeous she has indeed made an impression on Your Humble Narrator.  I am only too pleased to welcome Caroline to The Spanking Spotlight.  Dear Readers please give this beautiful creature a warm welcome. 

Hi Caroline,  Thank you for sitting down with us at the Spanking Spot.  Lets start with how you got into the spanking scene.  I know you have done shoots with Sound Punishments and Northern Spanking.  Had you been spanked before you started shooting and by whom?

Before getting into my current relationship I sort of alternated between periods of meeting people from the internet one-on-one and then freaking myself out and escaping into vanilla relationships. It was very stop-start. During that kind of random experimentation time I had some scary experiences and some good ones. One of the very good ones was meeting Richard Windsor in NYC years ago at the very beginning of my explorations…I think he was the first Englishman to spank me, and he’s so great. He can certainly dish it out! Almost two years ago, after another of my vanilla periods, I showed up at my first spanking party, and everything started for real. I met my boyfriend there and I never looked back. Then, back in March, I made my first video with Sound Punishment, and things picked up another notch.

Now in our discussion prior to the interview,  You told me that you were quite the little housewife.  Can you share with us about your domestic hobbies?

I am a bit of a housewife, although I’ve been traveling so much recently the house certainly doesn’t look like it! (that may also have something to do with the fact that "domestic hobbies" and "housework" are not always the same thing!) My friends tease me and call me "Madame Defarge" because I love to knit. I’ve got a bit of a short attention span, though, so anything bigger than a hat is probably sitting in my bedroom looking half-finished and forlorn these days. I’ve never been a fashionista, but I can sew just enough to be dangerous and have done bits of costuming for various community theatres and dance companies. Although that’s less sewing from scratch and more sprucing up old costumes with new buttons and trims and sashes and stuff. I also love to bake (especially apple pies: how June Cleaver is that?), though I’ve not made very good friends with the oven in this house and don’t trust it with anything daintier than biscuits.

Like myself you said you love to cook.  What’s your favorite dish?

When I’m cooking for other people I’m a complete show-off.  (Oh, let’s face it, I’m always a complete show-off!) I like to make impressive things with lots of complicated ingredients…the kind of 4 course meals that you need to go to 6 different shops for before you can even start, but that doesn’t always turn out to plan. After a few catastrophes I’ve scaled back. (I refuse to be spanked for burning dinner!) It’s a bit boring, but everyone’s impressed with a perfectly roasted chicken or fish, some rosemary roasted potatoes and some asparagus. Oh, but now we’re far away from spanking and I’m channelling Martha Stewart. Sorry, where were we?

I understand you attended the Florida Moonshine Party a few weeks back.  How did you enjoy the states and the style of spanking here vs the UK

I love the States! I lived there until recently, and sometimes I get homesick, so it’s always nice to go back, especially for spanking trips. There’s not a "spanking scene" in Ireland so much as a general BDSM scene, so it’s great fun to go back and marvel at 100+ people all gathered in one place for love of the same kink. They don’t have spanking parties like that over here, and FMS is one of the very best.  It’s much more of a pot-luck in that sense as well because you’ve got all kinds and styles of spanking: an all-you-can-spank buffet. My own tastes are quite specific–I love role-play, and I love school scenes, and I have to say nobody does that exactly like the UK.  In fact, I can’t help it, even in the States I find myself getting spanked by Englishmen more often than not! I mean, at FMS alone I got smacked by no less than 4 Brits. So, as much as I love the USA, I think I’m on the right side of the Atlantic now.

Ok my Dear,  back to spanking,  Can you tell us a bit of what its like on the set

I’ve always been into the performing arts and I remember writing somewhere once about how I used to daydream that some day, somehow, I’d end up in a vanilla stage-play where I’d have to be spanked for the role. It seemed like a one-in-a-million-chance, but I thought about it all the time. Then, out of nowhere, I realized that I could be a spanking model. Acting where spankings are guaranteed? Sign me up!

Being on set is thrilling and it can go straight to your head. All that attention and focus is on you. (And the spanker, but you know it’s mostly on you.) This can also be a little intimidating, but everyone I have worked for has been so nice and encouraging. I’m always very high-strung right before I shoot. I’ve found that it often takes me a little while to settle down and get into the groove. That’s why it’s helpful when they start with a photo-set or two. It gets out the worst of the nerves and by the time you have to act you’ve established a rapport with the spanker and director and crew and you can disappear a little more into your role and start to enjoy yourself.

Making spanking movies is some of the best fun I’ve ever had, but it’s also hard work, especially if you’re doing a shoot that lasts more than one day. There are costumes and make-up to do, and it can get a bit frantic–I am not a very organized girl and the changing room is always knee-deep in discarded underpants when I’m on set. And while everyone is relaxed and focused on taking care of you and making things as nice as possible for you, you’re aware that at the end of a day this is a business and we all have jobs to do. You need to juggle your own enjoyment and emotions while making sure you’re being professional and getting everything done. I also wasn’t prepared for how sore I’d get–and I don’t mean my bum! (though that gets plenty sore…by the last film of my 2-day shoot I was practically levitating!) A lot of being spanked on film requires you to do things "naturally" that you wouldn’t naturally do in a spanking…like twisting around so your face shows, or holding poses for a long time while they get stills.

And no matter how much fun it is, it asks a lot of you mentally. In fact, the better the scene goes, the more it requires from you. In real life you might only do an heavy scene or role-play once a week. On set you can be doing 3 or 4 in the space of a working day, switching head-spaces and characters all the time. You’re also taking in the experience: playing a role, being whacked, having emotions, but still reserving a part of your mind for the technical side of things you have to be aware of: "where’s the camera, are my eyes open, how am I holding my legs, am I going to kick over a light?" Keeping those two sides balanced all the time requires some intense focus. I’m a pretty social person but it was a relief when Lucy from Northern Spanking told me it was okay to disappear with a book and be hermity during the down-time. The first day I couldn’t get enough of giggling and chatting with everyone else but the second day I really needed those little islands of alone-time to recharge and sort out my head. By the end of the shoot I was really sad that it was over but I also knew that I’d given everything I had.  I was ready for an epic nap and a lot of cuddling. Now, of course, I am itching to get to the next job. (Producers, take note!)

Alright,  Since you are the one going over the knee,  If you could be spanked by any celebrity who would it be? 

Hrm. Good question. Usually it’s the character more than the celebrity that I’d like to whack me. But we know all the usual suspects so I’ll go out on a limb and suggest a real person and a baseball player for once: the Red Sox pitcher Jonathan Papelbon. He’s six foot four, made entirely of muscle, has crazy eyes, and holy crow, he can throw a 100mph fastball: can you imagine that right arm? Yum. or as they say in the UK, "Phwoar!"

I have to ask where in the world did you find that 50’s style poodle dress you wore during your spanking at Sound Punishments?  (you look great in it by the way)

eBay! eBay is a blessing and a curse. It can become a habit. My boyfriend and I have come to an agreement: I can buy things that catch my fancy on eBay but I have to get a big spanking while wearing them afterwards. It’s a win-win. But it occasionally makes me think twice if I’m having a spank-heavy week! And thanks for the compliment! As I said before, costuming is a love of mine, and vintage clothes, especially from the 50’s, are my favorites. It’s getting to be a bit of a theme for me. I made a little 50’s styled video for spankingtube with Richard Windsor, and I did a few 50’s photosets with Northern. Lucy helped me with vintage hair and makeup, and she’s a genius, so I’m looking forward to seeing those! I have about a half-dozen dresses from that era and I wear them in my real vanilla life. Though without the petticoats and saddle shoes!

What is your favorite Implement and why?

Ooh, these questions are hard, because in the best spankings "good/bad" and "love/hate" are so very close. And the answers always change, depending on the occasion or mood. But I’ll stop being difficult and just choose one. I’d say my boyfriend’s belt. When he uses it on me over his knee he takes ages wrapping and re-wrapping it around his hand, and it’s just so sexy–I love anticipation and I go weak in the knees when he gets finicky about things before a spanking, like that belt or rolling up his shirt-sleeve just so. And it’s really heavy but it’s been worn buttery-soft, so I know I’m going to feel it and it’s going to hurt but I can just keep taking it and taking it, and I love that.

How about your least favorite?

I don’t really like wooden paddles. They are so loud and I’m so sensitive to noise, it makes me twitchy and sets my teeth on edge! I’m probably the only girl in the world that complains about the *noise* of an implement over the feel, but there you go.

What is your favorite spanking position and least if you have one?

OTK, like most people, but I also really enjoy the psychological challenge (and the physical one, if I’m wearing high heels!) of touching my toes for a caning. Somehow it makes me feel very small and lonely and brave, and then I can feel very sorry for myself, which I love. Least favorite is the  (ugh, I hate to even type it) "diaper" position. I’ve never been spanked like this in real life, though I did a photo-set with it. It’s embarrassing and seriously unflattering. It could make Tinkerbelle look like Attila the Hun doing yoga. Yuck!

Do you watch any other spanking models?  Do you admire one in particular?

I love other spanking models! It’s hard to pick one. Amelia Jane Rutherford was one of the first models I ever knew by name, and, I mean, she’s the obvious choice. She’s how I look in the movies I make in my head! She’s so talented, funny, and feisty and so damn beautiful it almost hurts to look at her. Pandora Blake is also an inspiration: there’s one particular  hard OTK spanking she took from Tom at GBS that was the epitome of everything that turns me on about spanking–I remember pointing it out to my boyfriend at the start of our relationship as an example of what I wanted. She’s the first model with a blog that I became aware of, and was so helpful and warm when I started emailing her. She’s gorgeous and has become a great friend. I’m hoping to work with her in the near future. This is starting to sound like a roll-call, but I also love Kami Robertson and Adele Haze, because they both have this way of looking helpless that just melts me. Rarely do spanking videos elicit sympathy from me. I’m usually yelling: "go on, hit her harder!" But I always just want to rescue those two and pet them and make them cocoa. Irelynn Logeen has the most beautiful hair in the business and an intense don’t-you-dare glare. I’m a big fan.

Do you prefer M/F or F/F spankings and why?

At the beginning I was very adamant about liking M/f  only and I think it’s because that’s what I had always seen in my head when I’d been fantasizing all those years.  M/f still the mainstay of my kink, but as I’ve gotten more comfortable in the scene I’ve started being spanked by women as well, and it’s a very different experience. Women have really interesting extremes of both tenderness and cruelty, and when the two are blended, that’s a cool place to be. And the rare time I switch I really enjoy spanking other girls, because it fits into my role-play mind better. I like to play a bit of a bully, and in my role-plays the girls I spank are my contemporaries. Whatever power I have is ill-gotten and abused. And something I should probably be spanked for later.

Doing my little research for your interview I happened across your blog Getting it Good And I came across when you decided to become a spanking model, and you weren’t sure if you were cute enough!  My Dear Caroline,  what in the name of red bottoms would possess you to think that?  You’re gorgeous!

Oh, stop it, you’re making me blush. I think a lot of it had to do with my size. I’m a tall, solidly built girl, and I sort of had it in my mind that you had to be a fragile dainty little elfin creature to be a spanking model. Yes, Amelia-Jane Rutherford  is taller than me, but she’s also Amelia-Jane Rutherford, so there’s that. And almost everyone has things they don’t like about the way they look, sore-spots. Dodgy teeth or cellulite or lumpy knees or an old scar. You can come to terms with them for yourself, but it’s another order of magnitude to say "Yeah, I’m okay enough with that that I’m going to put it up on the internet for everyone to see and comment on." I had the sense that by working in this industry you’re sort of offering yourself up to be some kind of object of desire, and it seemed presumptuous of me to nominate myself for that: I didn’t know for sure if there was a place for less-than-perfect fantasy objects. But one of the great things about the spanking scene is that there literally is a place for everyone. And to be a little shallow about it, I have to say that being a spanking model has done a lot to stroke my ego. I’ve never felt prettier.

Ok  I do have some female readers,  Can you give any advice to any women thinking about getting into the industry?  

Yes:
1.)  Email other models, and get to know them. Some girls are really busy, but most will take the time to get back to you if they can. So far I have found no competition, no jealousy, just a warm, lovely group of smart, funny, honest women who care for each other and look out for each other. They know everything, they’ll give you tips, the low-down on different producers, and a good sense of what a day-in-the-life can be. Also, there are lots of models with blogs now, and when I was thinking about it I went and devoured all the archives, and I can’t recommend that enough. It felt like I was getting leg-up, and I didn’t feel so lost when I showed up at my first shoot because I’d been able to imagine it in detail from what I’d read before. (These interviews are great for that, too. I read every single one, and imagined that maybe someday you’d interview me! Whee!)
2.) Take your time, find out what YOU like, what turns YOU on, what YOU would enjoy doing. There’s absolutely no rush. Look at a bunch of sites, get a feel for what’s out there. Chances are you’ll find sites that attract you more than others–those are the ones to write to, because a girl who is turned on by what she’s doing is automatically sexy. To be fair, modeling is not actually all about fulfilling your wildest fantasies all the time. Sometimes you need to let that go and just get on with the work, but it helps if you love what you’re doing and believe in the product you are making. You have to love it, because you’re probably not going to get rich or even make a living from it. Every girl I know says the same thing: whatever money we make from modeling almost always ploughed right back into the scene: more panties and costumes and spanking-related travel.
And spend a lot of time thinking about whether it really is the right choice for you. You have to be okay with never trying for any kind of main-stream celebrity (not even reality TV!), never running for office, that sort of thing. That might sound ridiculous or funny but when you’re young you don’t know what the future could hold and you don’t want to shut any doors you might need later. You can’t take back the internet, as many people have learned to their sorrow. The internet is forever. Like everything, there’s a cost-benefit ratio, and you have to sort that out for yourself. I love being a spanking model and I made the right choice for me, but every time I hear about some blogger or someone in the industry being outed for this or that I still have a little cold-sweat moment. You have to know that you can deal with that.  Also, be prepared for attention of all types. A lot of it is really good and flattering and ego-boosting, but there are some strange people out there, and they’ll try to get in touch with you, and usually the creepier they are the more persistent they will be. Your privacy is worth protecting–only share what you want to share, because you don’t owe anyone anything. You have to know how to say no, how to just hit the delete-button, and how to keep a sense of humor about it. You can’t worry about people thinking you’re being snobby–you have to look out for yourself. The people in the industry are kind and protective, but in the end, you’re the one who is responsible for your own safety and your own piece of mind.

Are you spanked by your significant other in your personal life?  Did he know you were a spanking model before you started dating?  How did you explain it to him?

  Yes, I am spanked all the time! Like any couple we go through periods where we’re playing constantly, and periods where we play less. If there’s a big shoot or party coming up we have to adjust for that. But it’s often, in any case. Modeling was a decision we came to together–we had several long conversations before I decided to go for it. I knew he’d let me do whatever I thought was right, but we’re a team and the things one person does affect the other. It was important to me that it was something he was comfortable with, and he’s been so supportive. He is my biggest fan and my entourage and my magic feather. He’s so patient: he absorbs all my pre-shoot nerves and babbling and fussing without complaint. He comes with me when he can, but if I go by myself I know he’ll be there when I get home to absorb all my post-shoot nerves and babbling and fussing, and soothe me through any sub-drop or insecurity that might come as aftershocks. (It happens.) I hate to be mushy but I honestly don’t know if I could model without having him to come back home to. He’s the best.

Is there anything you would like say to your fans out there.  ( I am indeed one of them)

     Fans? I am a fan of fans! Bring on the fans! I think I’m too new to have many fans (as we speak, I’ve only got one professional video released!) But in the hypothetical I guess I would say hey, thanks so much for liking me and my videos! The best is yet to come! And I’m always kicking around forums and blogs, so say hi sometime.

Thanks so much for asking me to do this interview. It’s a running joke that I’m the world’s humblest ego-maniac so this was right up my alley. I hope I didn’t ramble on too much!

I can say without a doubt Dear Reader that Caroline is an absolute sweetheart.  I do indeed look forward to seeing her quite amazing bottom draped over many more knees in the near future.  Perhaps one day Your Humble Narrator will be fortunate to spank her wonderful bottom.  For now however I can only dream. You can see this lovely girl getting her bottom reddened on Sound Punishments and Northern Spanking.

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This Dear Reader is the last week of the Spanking Spot Awards (thankfully) for 2008.  Soon we will be back with the next 11 months of wonderful spanking brought to us by our hard working Site Owners.  Today we have the all important 2008 best spankee.  This is always a hard one to give out Dear Reader since there are just so many great girls that have gotten their pretty little asses spanked this year.  This award is for that one girl that goes the extra mile though both her video’s and spankings.  A girl that a spanko cannot help himself but sit there with his eyes dilated like an owl hunting a mouse on a moonless night and mouth agape like a dumbfounded Wall Street Executive.  Yes Dear Reader this is perhaps one of the most important Awards The Spanking Spot can give out. 

And The Spanking Spot Award for Best Spankee in 2008 is……….. Amelia Jane Rutherford.
I am sure Dear Reader that this simply isn’t a surprise considering how Yours Truly fawns over Amelia Jane.  Well fawns until he sees her on just about every site for the past 3 month!  But I digress.  Honestly Dear Reader had I disliked AJR I would have still awarded her this most prestigious of trophies.  Why might you ask Dear Reader?  Well.. first you Dear Reader have voted her this distinction by an overwhelming margin.  One that not even Your Humble Narrator could override in good conscience.  Second and more importantly,  I think I would be hard pressed to find someone who wouldn’t agree that Amelia was the most hard working spankee in 2008.  She posed for more sites with more shoots then perhaps anyone in the industry has ever done.  Furthermore she tantalized us with her beauty and her ability to recieve a spanking with the best of them.  Over the knee, bent over, clothed, naked, Pants down or Pants up.  It didn’t matter! Amelia Jane Rutherford was the real thing this year.  A most deserved award.   (Images courtesy of Dallas Spanks Hard, Northern Spanking, Good Spanking, Firm Hand Spanking and Sound Punishments)

And The Runner Up for Best Spankee 2008 is ……. For the 2nd Year in a Row, My Muse, Leia Ann Woods. 
This Dear Reader was a close one between Samantha Woodley,  Niki Flynn (again) and my lovely muse Leia Ann.  I was actually going to give it to Sam but then thought better of it when I re-read your comments and emails Dear Reader.  It is not of course that Samantha and Niki didn’t do enough to recieve this honor but with the year that Leia Ann Woods had I think she really deserved it.  Outed in a barbaric fashion and plastered around the web Leia risked everything to defend herself and her friends from the most egregious of falsehoods and ending up in a court of law to defend her cohorts and our little hobby.  Did Leia go underground to hide in shame?  NO Dear Reader,  she held her head high and continued on with her passion despite possible ramifications to her in her personal life.  Dear Reader,  if there ever was a hero to the spanking world I can say proudly that it is indeed my muse Leia. (pictures courtesy of English Spankers, Northern Spanking)

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As a graduate of several well known Universities, a member of MENSA and the bar in 3 states one would reasonably expect Your Humble Narrator to Determine the number of posts left in the year and plan accordingly when announcing the yearly Spanking Awards.  The key word here is “expect” since year after year I find myself running out of time.  So rather then rush it Dear Reader we shall be announcing the winners well into January of 2008.  I am sure the recipients of the Golden Buttocks Awards can wait another week or so to accept this most prestigious recognition of their achievements in the spanking community over the past year. 

There were lots of different opinions on who should be voted best New Spankee this year.  And for the first time in the GBA (Golden Buttocks Award) History both the winner and runner up are from the same site!  Furthermore both the winner and runner up outranked everyone with a commanding margin with the exception of poor Sarah Gregory.  Sarah being one of my favorite spankee’s in her own right had a bit of a problem winning this nomination.  To all that nominated her psst…  She made her debut before Dec 2007 thus unfortunately is not eligible for this award. 

The Winner of This Years 2008 Spanking Spot Award For Best New Spankee is …. Kami Robertson!

For two of the nicest people in spanking that I know Paul and Lucy of Northern Spanking have had a very tumultuous year.  Their trials and tribulations of 2008 makes Yours Truly all the more eager to inform them that their eye for new talent nabbed them BOTH the winner and runner up of best new spankee of 2008.  As I could tell from the comments when our winner Kami made her debut in Dec 2007 many of our jaws dropped and many a shirt ruined by drool stains.  At the tender age of 19 and donning a schoolgirl dress that she wore only a few years ago she took the spanking world by storm quickly making the rounds in the UK.  Initially I was a bit concerned about how hard her spankings were but Dear Reader as she grew and posed for more spanking houses she has given us some of the golden spanking moments of 2008.  Please Dear Readers join me in congratulating Kami for her delightful work. 

Oh I have heard though the grapevine (though I am not absolutely sure) But Kami is also a regular in the UK spanking Parties.  So if you ever wanted to spank a Golden Buttocks Award Recipient then contact Northern Spanking and have fun! You can Also find her at English Spanking

Runner Up:  2008 Spanking Spot Award For Best New Spankee Runner Up is …. Irelynn Logeen
For a rather new spankee she has gotten quite the following in recent weeks.  With enough comments and emails to tie our lovely winner Kami I am indeed impressed since her first real spanking was on Halloween! Little is known about the girl since I have not had the pleasure to interview her.  We do know this.  First she is a redhead {swoon}.  Second despite her name she is not indeed Irish but from the Netherlands.  Third she is incredibly spankable (did I mention she had red hair?).  With the few small roles she has done for Northern Spanking I hope to see her blossom (or more fittingly her bottom blossom) in 2009. 

Once again please congratulate Paul and Lucy for their fine scouting work.  I have only one question.  Where do I sign up to be a spanking scout!

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