Comments on: Out of the Closet, Instructions on how to comment and a couple of shout outs http://thespankingspot.com/out-of-the-closet-instructions-on-how-to-comment-and-a-couple-of-shout-outs/ Dedicated to OTK, Paddling, Caning, Bare Bottom Beatings and all things Spanking Thu, 29 Jul 2010 20:54:20 -0700 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.2 hourly 1 By: Anonymous http://thespankingspot.com/out-of-the-closet-instructions-on-how-to-comment-and-a-couple-of-shout-outs/comment-page-1/#comment-482 Anonymous Mon, 09 Jul 2007 01:05:00 +0000 http://thespankingspot.com/?p=227#comment-482 I enjoy your site. I am just shy about commenting. I don't think my husband would like it if I left my real name. :-(<br/><br/>I am jsut getting him to spank me after twenty years of marriage. He is very dominant--more than I want him to be--but vanilla in bed. I figure if I have to be submissive than i should get the good stuff too!<br/><br/>love, Kas I enjoy your site. I am just shy about commenting. I don’t think my husband would like it if I left my real name. :-(

I am jsut getting him to spank me after twenty years of marriage. He is very dominant–more than I want him to be–but vanilla in bed. I figure if I have to be submissive than i should get the good stuff too!

love, Kas

]]> By: Dave http://thespankingspot.com/out-of-the-closet-instructions-on-how-to-comment-and-a-couple-of-shout-outs/comment-page-1/#comment-481 Dave Sun, 08 Jul 2007 05:34:00 +0000 http://thespankingspot.com/?p=227#comment-481 Well, as Pixie once wrote on her fine blog, maybe there is no such thing as vanilla? That to me is like saying the sky is yellow, but who knows really?!<br/><br/>Regarding leaving comments, I think most feel more comfortable lurking and one can't really force folks to comment. Almost all bloggers as you know share the same lack of comment issues. <br/><br/>Keep on bloggin' my man,<br/>D- Well, as Pixie once wrote on her fine blog, maybe there is no such thing as vanilla? That to me is like saying the sky is yellow, but who knows really?!

Regarding leaving comments, I think most feel more comfortable lurking and one can’t really force folks to comment. Almost all bloggers as you know share the same lack of comment issues.

Keep on bloggin’ my man,
D-

]]> By: Prefectdt http://thespankingspot.com/out-of-the-closet-instructions-on-how-to-comment-and-a-couple-of-shout-outs/comment-page-1/#comment-480 Prefectdt Thu, 05 Jul 2007 17:56:00 +0000 http://thespankingspot.com/?p=227#comment-480 Thanks for the reassurance Miss Wells and Mr Windsore. Personaly I do not feel intimidated just a little out classed, but I was trying to point out why others may not comment.By the way I read and love both your blogs.<br/><br/>Totaly agree with Dominic and Smallhanded about the interviews, and as I am more of a DVD buyer than a site joiner (Paul the webmaster over at Northern Spanking knows why and is probably still swearing about it) Please keep the DVD reviews coming too Mr Brushstrokes.<br/><br/>Prefectdt Thanks for the reassurance Miss Wells and Mr Windsore. Personaly I do not feel intimidated just a little out classed, but I was trying to point out why others may not comment.By the way I read and love both your blogs.

Totaly agree with Dominic and Smallhanded about the interviews, and as I am more of a DVD buyer than a site joiner (Paul the webmaster over at Northern Spanking knows why and is probably still swearing about it) Please keep the DVD reviews coming too Mr Brushstrokes.

Prefectdt

]]> By: Lovely Autumn Colour http://thespankingspot.com/out-of-the-closet-instructions-on-how-to-comment-and-a-couple-of-shout-outs/comment-page-1/#comment-479 Lovely Autumn Colour Thu, 05 Jul 2007 17:21:00 +0000 http://thespankingspot.com/?p=227#comment-479 That's very handy to know about Match.com barespanker :-) . That’s very handy to know about Match.com barespanker :-) .

]]> By: Smallhanded http://thespankingspot.com/out-of-the-closet-instructions-on-how-to-comment-and-a-couple-of-shout-outs/comment-page-1/#comment-478 Smallhanded Thu, 05 Jul 2007 16:19:00 +0000 http://thespankingspot.com/?p=227#comment-478 Same as Dominic. I love the interviews. I like the fact you show there are living, breathing people who share our kink, of their own free will. It's fun to learn the various ways a model can come to spanking. <br/><br/>This blog is also a great way to 'shop' for membership to a spanking site. Brushstrokes, you're very good at showcasing what a site does. You describe the product, but also capture the feel of a particular site.<br/><br/>As for the opportunity to chat with or comment on a model's blog, so much the better! :) Same as Dominic. I love the interviews. I like the fact you show there are living, breathing people who share our kink, of their own free will. It’s fun to learn the various ways a model can come to spanking.

This blog is also a great way to ’shop’ for membership to a spanking site. Brushstrokes, you’re very good at showcasing what a site does. You describe the product, but also capture the feel of a particular site.

As for the opportunity to chat with or comment on a model’s blog, so much the better! :)

]]> By: Anonymous http://thespankingspot.com/out-of-the-closet-instructions-on-how-to-comment-and-a-couple-of-shout-outs/comment-page-1/#comment-477 Anonymous Thu, 05 Jul 2007 12:52:00 +0000 http://thespankingspot.com/?p=227#comment-477 just to say again how much i like this blog, especially the interviews...<br/><br/>i kind of agree with prefectdt, but i think it's also really nice to have the stars commenting on blogs. i think having people like pixie and richard around makes the whole spanking community so much more close-knit - the people you see in videos you can also chat to on blogs; there's no distancing (and I love the work you two do btw!). <br/><br/>as for lots of people out there being into spanking, well...i hope so!<br/><br/>dominic just to say again how much i like this blog, especially the interviews…

i kind of agree with prefectdt, but i think it’s also really nice to have the stars commenting on blogs. i think having people like pixie and richard around makes the whole spanking community so much more close-knit – the people you see in videos you can also chat to on blogs; there’s no distancing (and I love the work you two do btw!).

as for lots of people out there being into spanking, well…i hope so!

dominic

]]> By: BareSpanker http://thespankingspot.com/out-of-the-closet-instructions-on-how-to-comment-and-a-couple-of-shout-outs/comment-page-1/#comment-476 BareSpanker Thu, 05 Jul 2007 05:11:00 +0000 http://thespankingspot.com/?p=227#comment-476 I've noticed that Match.com (a very vanilla dating website) has a new feature called Matchwords and it includes "spank", "fetish", "submissive".... Talk about spanking getting into the mainstream! I’ve noticed that Match.com (a very vanilla dating website) has a new feature called Matchwords and it includes “spank”, “fetish”, “submissive”…. Talk about spanking getting into the mainstream!

]]> By: Richard Windsor http://thespankingspot.com/out-of-the-closet-instructions-on-how-to-comment-and-a-couple-of-shout-outs/comment-page-1/#comment-475 Richard Windsor Thu, 05 Jul 2007 03:53:00 +0000 http://thespankingspot.com/?p=227#comment-475 Prefectdt,<br/><br/>Your point is valid and requires no further explanation :-) I'm also sorry that you feel somewhat intimidated. If it helps, I would welcome your comments and opinions on my blog, the more the merrier.<br/><br/>One thing that I think you will find from other bloggers commenting on posts, is that we all have blogs and we know that we all welcome comments. So if I see a post with no comments, or a post with a healthy set of comments, I like to either give a boost or add my two cents to let the blogger know someone is reading and paying attention.<br/><br/>I agree with Pixie, you should never feel that your opinion is any less, or any more than anybody else's. Your opinions are very valuable, it's part of the reason we do blogs, to get the opinions of every other spanko who reads or views it. I can assure you that your comments and opinions would be viewed with the same respect as any other poster, whether they have a known name or not.<br/><br/>Trust me when I say this, when we receive comments the first thing we look at is the content of the comment itself, not the person writing it.<br/><br/>Richard Windsor. Prefectdt,

Your point is valid and requires no further explanation :-) I’m also sorry that you feel somewhat intimidated. If it helps, I would welcome your comments and opinions on my blog, the more the merrier.

One thing that I think you will find from other bloggers commenting on posts, is that we all have blogs and we know that we all welcome comments. So if I see a post with no comments, or a post with a healthy set of comments, I like to either give a boost or add my two cents to let the blogger know someone is reading and paying attention.

I agree with Pixie, you should never feel that your opinion is any less, or any more than anybody else’s. Your opinions are very valuable, it’s part of the reason we do blogs, to get the opinions of every other spanko who reads or views it. I can assure you that your comments and opinions would be viewed with the same respect as any other poster, whether they have a known name or not.

Trust me when I say this, when we receive comments the first thing we look at is the content of the comment itself, not the person writing it.

Richard Windsor.

]]> By: Amber Pixie Wells http://thespankingspot.com/out-of-the-closet-instructions-on-how-to-comment-and-a-couple-of-shout-outs/comment-page-1/#comment-474 Amber Pixie Wells Thu, 05 Jul 2007 02:32:00 +0000 http://thespankingspot.com/?p=227#comment-474 Hi Prefectdt. Sorry to hear that you feel intimidated by industry related people or well-known bloggers leaving comments on other's blogs. But really, we're just normal folk too and simply sharing our two cents on a topic. Our opinion is no more or less valuable than your own. Enjoy reading posts and if you have something you'd like to respond to, then do so in confidence as your comments are just as welcomed as anyone else's. Hi Prefectdt. Sorry to hear that you feel intimidated by industry related people or well-known bloggers leaving comments on other’s blogs. But really, we’re just normal folk too and simply sharing our two cents on a topic. Our opinion is no more or less valuable than your own. Enjoy reading posts and if you have something you’d like to respond to, then do so in confidence as your comments are just as welcomed as anyone else’s.

]]> By: Prefectdt http://thespankingspot.com/out-of-the-closet-instructions-on-how-to-comment-and-a-couple-of-shout-outs/comment-page-1/#comment-473 Prefectdt Wed, 04 Jul 2007 19:05:00 +0000 http://thespankingspot.com/?p=227#comment-473 There are thousands of us yes, but most of us are just little amateur players. I like to comment on blogs but then I go back a day or two later to see who else has commented on the same post and see names like Leia-Ann Woods, Lucy Mclean, Dave from Cherry Red etc etc and its great to see what the big names have to say on a subject so I hope to keep reading their comments and hope they keep leaving them. But that leaves me looking at what I have said and sometimes I think "well who the hell cares what I have to say about this, in such company" So maybe the lack of comments from visitors is caused by a a sense of intimidation either real or imagined. <br/><br/>Having said that I have always felt most comfortable commenting at Niki Flynn's "not a blog" Ms Flynn is just so welcoming to us fans.<br/><br/>Yours (expecting to have this point explained ten times better by Amber Pixie Wells or Richard Windsor or Pandora Blake or................)<br/><br/>Prefectdt There are thousands of us yes, but most of us are just little amateur players. I like to comment on blogs but then I go back a day or two later to see who else has commented on the same post and see names like Leia-Ann Woods, Lucy Mclean, Dave from Cherry Red etc etc and its great to see what the big names have to say on a subject so I hope to keep reading their comments and hope they keep leaving them. But that leaves me looking at what I have said and sometimes I think “well who the hell cares what I have to say about this, in such company” So maybe the lack of comments from visitors is caused by a a sense of intimidation either real or imagined.

Having said that I have always felt most comfortable commenting at Niki Flynn’s “not a blog” Ms Flynn is just so welcoming to us fans.

Yours (expecting to have this point explained ten times better by Amber Pixie Wells or Richard Windsor or Pandora Blake or…………….)

Prefectdt

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