Height: 5'6" (Gawsh, I think I am short!)
Waist: I really Haven't Measured.
Hips : " "
Weight: Around 125-130 lbs.
Hair color : Currently a sort of Auburn, reddish/dark brown
Eye color : Light Brown/Hazel
Birthday :January 10, 1985
Hometown :I really don't have a "hometown" per say. I was born in Minot, ND and from there I move around the country every three years or so
Relationship Status: Single, Presently. There are people whom I have gravitated towards and emotionally fused with. The are many levels we have found ourselves connected through and I can honestly say that is has been and continues to be seductively fulfilling. I would say that I am technically "single" as I don't segregate myself to just one person at the moment.
Lets start this week out with an interview that I have wanted to do for over a year. I have to make a confession here, when I first started to interview spanking models I never expected to get blown away with many models intelligence and grace. Our next guest on The Spanking Spotlight is no exception. An intelligent beautiful spankee who is a far better writer then your humble narrator. Dear reader please welcome Kailee.
Hi Kailee, Thank you for sitting down with us at the Spanking Spot You have no idea how I tried to find you for a interview. Now my usual flawed understanding is that you started your Spanking Career with Real Spankings. Could you tell me the story on how you got into the business with them? Given the presumption that I am indeed wrong, could you tell us a bit about the first Spanking House you worked for?
That seems like ages ago and definitely a time where I was much more reserved when regarding this whole realm. I guess it started as easily as answering an ad placed in our local newspaper, the ones discreetly placed in the back section that makes you feel just a little bit seedy just by looking through them! I was intrigued and so I delved in. I did a great deal of research before I actually made an appointment and made my way through the front door (never thinking any of what has transpired would have ever occurred, not in the slightest). I had my first shoot with Realspankings.com, I can honestly state that my nerves were skyrocketed. I am sure most people can tell you the underlying want is no comparison to the actually experience. For me, after the nerves had settled, it was as though this floodgate of repressed emotions were released–I don't think I have ever felt as sated as I did after the set was done and I was packed up and shipped off. All the while during the shoot I had this intuition that this was something that would not be short-lived. So I grasped on to it. Kept walking through the front doors and kept pushing through, daring myself just to go a bit further each time (regarding severity). Since that first shoot, I have gained an amazing amount of insight of what this whole realm can posses for those who find themselves lured. I am still traveling through various doors and still intrigued by what this realm holds for me. As well as what lures the other people who make up this little subculture.
Most of the Real Spanking models are scattered to the wind now. Can you tell me what made you leave?
I think it was most to do with the fact that I wanted to branch out and test the waters. I became so enthralled with other sites (especially where the severity is heightened beyond a level we could ever produce here in the States). I wanted to be exposed to different scenes, as well as the people affiliated within the industry. Its all about experience for me, even the most minute detail denotes some form of self gratification within me.
I actually may have stated that answer in incorrect terms!! I have some sort of deep infatuation with NYC. I haven't crossed those waters yet. I am still residing in Denver!
In our pre-interview you told me your sister is your "second half" . I find that admirable since I had no siblings. Happily She is as beautiful as you. (which says a lot) and I know she did some spanking shoots with you. Could you tell me a little about her and your relationship with her, what she is doing now and if she will ever come back to the spanking world?
She is beautiful in all aspects that creates her being. I find her so intriguing and well put together. She is unfathomably intelligent and so levelheaded. She is one of the few people I admire and lookup too. My relationship with her is incredibly unique. I look to her for stability where I faultier and vice versa. Its amazing to have grown so close in what seems like such a short span of time. I find it so amazing how alike and how vastly different we are. People who have come across us tend to revel in this energy we give off. It's truly amazing how well we work together. I find that I have this insatiable need to speak with her every day and feel aloof if I don't. She is the type of person that I know will always be there, whether it be nonchalant or at a time of great need. When it comes down to it, the easiest way to describe it is that it is love in the purest form. As for her in the spanking world. I am not really positively sure it is her forte. I think she has some underlying attraction to it but for the most part I think it is something that she would rather engage in throughout her personal life. Currently she is continuing on with her education and studying to obtain her Master’s. She is, by far, one of the most intelligent people I know. She has always been intellectually driven and has set such an amazing example that I have always looked up to. I am extremely proud of her in all regards.
Just judging from your emails your are amazingly articulate (I am indeed jealous) You mentioned writing, (something I am both lousy and passionate about) . tell us a little what type of writing you do.
I must admit I do not hesitate to take any compliment that is given based on my intellect. I strive to maintain articulate mannerisms. I think my favorite book is the thesaurus, in all honesty! There is just something about being able to speak so eloquently that is so amazing titillating!! I think my writing is based on being enthralled with the literacy world. I would sit down and become immersed in all of these different books and other various bodies of work. I was so intrigue with how it would capture all of my attention for however long the pages would continue to turn. I find that I am enlightened with reading and I long to be able to create something of that caliber. So in short (if I can say this after that grand statement), the writing that I do is dependent on my mood. It may be something casual; something to relinquish any overlapping emotions or just to take note on any particular thoughts that may be rambling through my brain. Or it could be as in-depth as a starting point to something on a grander scale. I don't limit myself with one particular genre, I just outpour what feels appropriate at the moment.
Now back to spanking since I know your fans will crucify yours truly if I don’t. So you went to Spain to shoot for the venerable Girls Boarding School. Only to be spanked by Tom. How was that compared to what you are used to.
Tom is amazing!! He was so cordial and made a very good impression on me, by far. It was my first time venturing overseas and I was so nervous about that, not to mention the fact that I had no idea what to expect "spanking-wise". Pictures don't really relinquish any details that may be attributed with the spanking. It is all left to the imagination and the ultimately the experience. Now here I was; completely nervous and slightly jet-lagged. With my backpack slung over my shoulder, I walked up to my soon-to-be spanker and was instantly welcomed with such warmth. He seemed so at ease and really made the whole experience one that I would repeat. I would say that in comparison it is quite similar to what I was normally used to regarding material and severity level. I would say the difference I noticed was that they are a very relaxed group. There wasn't a set schedule we had to abide by, nor were there any scripts to follow. Everything was at a very different pace and it made the shooting quite calm in retrospect to what I have normally been introduced too! All in all, a wonderful experience!
OK, I hesitate to ask this question only because I don’t know the whole story. My "sources" tell me you got into a bit of legal trouble while you were across the pond. Now if what I heard was true I have to say you managed to break the most moronic law that has ever been on the books. If you don’t mind please tell us about that experience.
Wow. You have some sneaky little sources, don't you!! In a sense I guess this could be conveyed as it is stated, however, It makes me feel as though I am this international felon of some sort when put into those words! It really has no real dramatic merit to it. It was a honest mistake that I ended up ultimately paying for on my end. I made plans to travel over to England to shoot with a company located there. This was after my stint with Girls Boarding School, so my nerves weren't as agitated this time. I was actually quite enamored with the idea of seeing the country on top of doing the shoot. Here I was, completely unaware of the legalities regarding working in other countries (a completely shameful excuse, that one is). I made each flight, survived each uneventful layover and arrived at my destination only to find out that I needed a Visa in order to do work in that particular country. A Paperwork malfunction, creatively put! I ended up not gaining access to the country and was promptly sent back. I also never made it to my shoot either. Now here's the question, which mistake is more deserving of a spanking!!
Now Kailee, I’ll admit I am a huge fan, and have seen quite a number of your videos. You can take one hell of a spanking and there have been more times than I can count that you look like you’re about to lose it. Are the spankings you receive as painful as they appear on film?
The scenes that I do are wholeheartedly truthfully portrayed on camera. The oddity about me is that I adore the pain aspect that is combined with spanking. I adore it so much that I would rather have someone up the anty, so to say, rather than have me throw out fake reactions just to create a scene. I find it quite trite to fake it on screen. I really love the honesty and the reality of the work that is created in this industry to segregate away from that seems rather pointless. I think the basic factor for me is that being on camera and being spanked on a high severity levels is just as gratifying to me as it is to the people watching. To create an illusion would cheat me out that satisfaction, as I feel it would to those on the opposite side of the spectrum.
I am hoping to delve into a harsher level of severity; but as it stands, I would have to say it's a tie between a paddling I got from Mr. M in the very beginning of my career (I believe it was a scene on SpankingTeenBrandi.com) or the shoot I had with Dallas, that one was extremely intense!
Kailee you have one of the best rears in the business. Can you share some of your secrets tricks you use to get your lovely bottom back into shape after a good bare bottom beating?
I would have to say some of the best remedies are arnica gel and a daily multivitamin (I take an extra dose of Iron if my bum is substantially marked). However, I have this fetish with the marks that are adorned on me. I will be settled in this completely reserved and proper situation, surrounded by "vanilla people" so to say and I am reminded as I sit down, that I have an underlying secret. A devious desire no-one knows about. I must admit, it is quite a turn on for me!
It really depends on what I am using the scene for, as there are two very different sides of the spectrum. I notice that I tend to use scenes as my own personal outlet, especially if I find that I have been personally affect by something of the same caliber as we are trying to convey. If it feels as though it is going to be something on more of a personal level, I begin to connect with thoughts pertaining to my own situation that is similar. I reminisce on each mishap, harbor all the feelings that CO-inside with them. In a sense, the scene becomes more realistic for me. I think that is why my pain threshold is on a heightened level, I begin to feel as though I deserve the punishment that is afflicted. Everything denoted is real. Where as on the opposite end, when it is something I can’t really relate to I find myself just reacting as a character. For me, the pain is something I enjoy at times. I have the tendency to repress a lot of emotional aspects of my life, placate the "superman" complex. So being on the receiving end is a therapeutic endeavor to release some of what I hold in so tightly. In any regards, any scene is meaningful and needs some preparation, some just more so than others.
By far, hands down it would be "A Submissive Mind." I think it just truly conveys a explicit perception of what the whole spanking/BDSM realm means to me and why I gravitate towards it. I think what made it break barriers was the fact that it was so vastly different from anything else floating around in the scene. It was just so intimate and realistic, it exudes a certain tone that is luring–even to me!
I love to ask this question its just so personal. Can you tell us the most embarrassing thing that has happened to you on the set?
What? And convey that all spanking models aren’t flawless?! I am just being facetious! I honestly really don’t know how to answer this particular question, as I tend to be able to laugh at myself and not take minute incidents so seriously. So in retrospect; with that said, I really don’t think there have been any horrifically embarrassing moments.
I would say the cane. It appeals to me because I feel that it has a very versatile standing. It can be very sensual and erotic and at the same time it is the one implement that can project a very harsh effect on me. Its a very unique feeling, it starts out as a dull thud and then it slowly releases this painfully erotic sensation that emits throughout my entire body. The so-called "subspace" that is introduced after a session with the cane is impeccably fulfilling. That alongside with the marks the cane makes, pushes this implement far ahead of any others.
I really can’t express a dislike for any particular implement, as they all in some form or another do their intended job efficiently. If I had to choose one particular implement to chastise it would probably be the wooden paddle. Although it does heighten my adrenaline and provide me with the necessary sensations I seek, I feel that it can only be used in one particular, distinct fashion. The pain is less versatile for me. I also find a lack of enjoyment with this particular implement because it is hard to bring this into my personal life, as it tends to denote the whole "disciplined schoolgirl" appeal.
What is your favorite spanking position and least if you have one?
It is completely dependent in which fashion I am being spanked. If it is on film and on a more professional level, I would say it would probably be OTK. I find this particular position to be the most comfortable for me and also allows for the spanker to be in more control in needed. If I am engaging in spanking scenarios in my personal life I tend to gravitate more towards being bound up and on my stomach. I think I like the notion of relinquishing all control at times and both of these adhere to that specific desire. However, when it comes down to it I am considerable versatile and open-minded. I can't say that I am particularly adverse to position!
Do you watch any other spanking models? Do you admire one in particular?
I can't say that I watch much of the filmed content that is filtering through cyber space. I don't use spanking or related material for sexual gratification. I will wander around through the review/news sites from time to time or if I hear a great deal of chatter about a particular person I will venture off to check them out. Other than that I don't find myself becoming familiarized with many of the models. I do have one person who I am completely fascinated with. Darenzia. She is exquisitely beautiful and one of the biggest names to come into the whole realm of BDSM. She is not really as connect to the spanking world. Her world has mostly revolved around working as a pro-domme and professional Fetish Model. I find her to be alluring in every fashion.
Do you prefer M/F or F/F spankings and why?
I have had experience with both and I don't gravitate toward either more so than the other. I find that both have their own unique abilities and specific traits that the other can't replicate. I think being able to subject yourself to experiencing both is a must, even if it is to find out whom you gravitate towards more so.
Who is your favorite Spanker (and why)? Are there any that hit harder then others?
Of course there are some spankers whom I have forged a personal relationship with during the course of my spanking career and that may factor in to me personally holding them with higher regards. However; I haven't been adorned with the ability to work with some of the spankers that still intrigue me, so I can't necessarily place an opinion on this particular question just yet!
I believe in the whole idea of "To each his own". I think we all have underlying desires and curiosities that need to be sated. I think my best advice would be to become informed about every aspect that is attributed this industry. Whether it is different realms you want to seek out or gaining insight of other people's personal opinions about what this means to them. There is nothing too small that will not benefit you if you reel in as much information possible. It will also keep you safe and allow you to pick and choose what you will and won't adhere to in this whole scene.
I don't think I have ever had any problems when explaining my role in the spanking community. I have always be very proud and open about why I am attracted to it and why it is deemed as quite self gratifying. I am the sort of personality that exudes confidence with my choices and I tend to not let personal opinions create a downfall within me. I am the sort of person who says, "this is who I am, that's it — you either like me or you don't." I explain details more in depth if any one inquires. Though I have really never felt the need to explain. I think the fact that I am also attracted to people who are more likely attracted to different subcultures doesn't hurt either!
Has your family (other then your sister) and friends been supportive in your movie career?
The one thing that I have always been completely appreciative of is the role my family and friends play in my life. Especially within the last few years, my relationship have elevated to a much grander level. The entirety of my "entourage" is well aware of what I do and are completely supportive. I have never had any problem with speaking to them in a very truthful manner. It wouldn't have change my outlook or perception on what I enjoy if they did not accept it. However, it does create me to remain at ease if I don't have to hide half my identity.
I have never really though about myself in those regards, "superstar spanking status" (though I must admit that saying does have a delectable ring to it)! I have my moments when I want to be completely low-key and docile. While in those moods I am completely content with curling up with my cats and watching movies all day. I also have my extroverted side where I like to go out with friends and run around the city, ducking into random places and seeing what vast array of adventures will arise. In detail. Some of the things that occupy my time are weekly dinners with family and friends. I adore sitting around and being content just yammering on about everything and nothing at all. I am continuing on with my education in the hopes that I will come out of this whole endeavor with a Bachelor's in Business finance with an emphasis of International Financial Management. I am also working on becoming quadrilingual. It is a slow process but it is something that intrigues me. I hope to become fluent in Spanish, Italian and French alongside my native language. As I stated before, reading and writing are my two biggest passions and I find myself intermingled with those on a frequent basis. In all reality, I am a big dork. I find enjoyment in the basic normalities of life. I do have my points where I relish in my interest in subcultures. Everything is balanced. I am compelled by variety, my personality calls for the ability to adhere to a vast array of different things.
Is there anything you would like say to your fans out there.
You are all are some of the most amazing people I have come to know. Never hesitate to connect with me on a personal level.Some of the best conversations I have had have been with people connected to this community. I have as much intrigue with you as you do with me.